I'm Feelin Myself OOTD

February 13, 2017


Whether it is Valentine’s Day or not, here at Soma & Ulte we are ALWAYS about celebrating your sexy…. both on the inside and out!  For most of us this is not easy.  We obsess over our own flaws, we allow the fear of being judged to dictate our actions and, consequently, we get stuck in the turmoil of our minds.  However, that could be just it!  A lot of it is just inside our own heads and it’s up to us to quiet down those demons.  For us, it meant allowing ourselves to be vulnerable in the moments that make us most uncomfortable and finding the courage to embrace the imperfections.  SEXY IS A STATE OF MIND!  So in honor of that, this fashion post is dedicated to last minute ideas to get in touch with your sultry side.  We found two amazing dresses that will have you make like Beyonce and start feelin yoself!



Out first dress is a beautiful nude colored  long sleeve dress with a twist front.  It is lightweight, feels like silk against the skin, and is extremely flattering for a curvier figure.  It is shockingly from Forever 21!!!!  What is great about the draping is that the twist tie front allows to accentuate the waist without the use of an actual belt.  On top of that, the deeper v draws attention away from what Connie considers her own flaw, which are broader shoulders.  By having a lower neckline, it can help to elongate the neck and pull focus to the bosom.  On top of that, the silhouette itself is very reminiscent of a different era.  This makes this look both sexy and classy all at the same time.  Unfortunately, this particular dress is no longer available online, but here are links to similar, affordable styles:t


$68 Kikiriki Collared Satin Dress

$48 Sheer Tie-Front Dress

$58 Girl IN Mind M Slit Maxi Dress.


Jewelry and shoes are all her own personal, but I suggest going with gold accessories as to complement the hazelnut tone of the dress.








The second sexy dress is from MissGuided and it was under $100.  What I love about it is that it’s the perfect way to get in touch with your inner dominatrix!  It is a bandage dress that has an amazing gold ring side detail.  The mock neck and rather conservative front and back allows for there to be an even more of a surprise when you turn to the side.  It’s extremely tight so as to suck you in, but it is not flattering on every body.  My only other complaint is that you literally have to peel out of it like a banana and it can leave imprints on your skin if it’s a bit too tight.  Unfortunately, this particular dress is also sold out but you can find a variety of nude colored bodycon dresses out in the world right now!  Here are a few alternatives:


$13.93 Long-sleeved Contemporary Ruched Dress

$95 Bandage Strappy Bodycon Dress (for the inner sex pot in you)

$280 Topshop Bandage Dress (for the inner dominatrix in you)






The SHUTZ SAASHA LEE ANKLE STRAP SANDAL HEEL is currently available at Nordstrom for $169.95.





So go get your sexy on … Valentine’s Day is TOMORROW!!!




Soma & Ulte



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